Judging People




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Never judge a book by its cover” means that when you look at a book you think it’s bad when you haven’t read the book yet or even read behind it. This quotation tells us to judge people from their personality, like judging a book, people will not read if the cover page is ugly and these are the mistakes we are making. The point is, it’s not wrong to judge people by their first impressions, but it usually happens, why don’t you give it a chance. 

There are a number of reasons why you shouldn’t judge people by their first impressions. Your opinion may be incorrect. As I have said, judging people before you know them is nothing more than a drama. First impressions are not a good thing and should not be. You need to know this person first before making a decision! Once you get to know the person, you can use them to decide who he or she is. 

Taking a conclusion of someone may set your mind on that person forever and you will not know the truth about that person unless you give him a chance and you will change your mind either making it better or worse. Judgment from everyone and everywhere Sad isn’t it. 

Unfortunately, it doesn’t matter how much you try not to judge others or how much you try to avoid it, it happens anyway. I am very tired of this judgment. Especially from people, I would never expect to actually do that. Just keep asking yourself this question: Who are you to judge someone else? Commenting on how that person lives his life? If you do not agree with something, put it down. It’s not like we’re all on the same path. We aren’t all supposed to end up in the same place, in the same situation, or with the same outcome in life. So why is it that people have the right to tell others that they are wrong? Although it is very common for people to do judge and almost everyone does it. 

Everywhere you go, anywhere you go, you will be judged. Whether it’s just your beliefs, your gaze, who you’re with, your personality or your actions, etc., people make impressions or stereotypes about people – even if the person Never met before.

Written by: Fatima Baloch

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